Christopher is back with a jam-packed episode covering everything from STI prevention and sex with trans partners to anal play, confidence in bed, and kinky toy recommendations. Whether you’re a seasoned slut, curious newbie, or just navigating a dry spell, this one’s full of info, laughs, and lube-friendly wisdom.
Plus, ever farted and flooded your jeans after douching? Christopher has. You’re welcome.
Key Takeaways:
- Doxy-PEP (aka Doxy PrEP):
A newer STI prevention option that helps reduce chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis,but not as perfect as the headlines suggest. Also, apparently your GP might gatekeep based on how slutty they think you are. Rude. - Sex with a Trans Man:
Christopher shares his first-time experience with penetrative vaginal sex and the prep he did to make it amazing. Spoiler: He asked questions, did the research, and communicated with curiosity instead of apology. Result? Multiple orgasms and zero shame. - Self-confidence in bed:
Ditch the shame, find partners who actually like you, and remember: the best sex toy is open, honest communication. - Mismatch in sex drives?
It’s not about being wrong or broken. Talk to your partner. Consider what generosity looks like for you. Maybe it’s time to open the relationship. Or maybe he’s just hungrier because he can’t have it. - What’s your sexual reality?
Ask yourself: What’s your point of view about sex? Are you living in a prison or a playground? Are you kinky, or is it a fetish? What would you like to try if no one judged you? - Sexual energy vs. copulation vs. intimacy:
Totally different things. You can have one, all, or none. And it’s all valid. - Anal 101 (and then some):
- Take fiber daily. Seriously. It helps.
- Learn to douche properly (and expel it all or risk grocery store accidents).
- Use toys to warm up. Start small, go slow, and ignore porn,it lies.
- Mr. S Leather is your new best friend.
- Toy talk:
- SquarePegToys: soft silicone, beginner-friendly, come in baby to beast mode.
- World’s Most Comfortable Butt Plug: weighted, stealthy, and oh-so-pleasurable with every wiggle.
