Summary
Christopher is coming to us from Prague this week with a jam-packed episode. It starts with a 3am call about a potential HIV exposure and unfolds into a deep dive on STIs, condoms (and why they’re actually great), stealthing, the G spot, the P spot, prostate orgasms, and why porn might not be the enemy. Plus, listener questions ranging from swinging boyfriends to porn performance and feeling sexy in a curvy body. Nothing is off limits in this one.
Key Takeaways
- HIV is no longer a death sentence
With treatments like PrEP and antiretrovirals, HIV is manageable and in many cases, untransmittable. The stigma is outdated and needs to go. - Condoms are not the enemy
Yes, they reduce sensation, but they also keep things clean, help with longevity, and prevent a whole lot of unwanted surprises. Especially useful for spontaneous anal sex or when things get messy. - Stealthing is not just shitty, it’s illegal in many places
If you agreed to use a condom, taking it off mid-sex without telling your partner is a violation. Period. - Listerine will not save you
Mouthwash won’t prevent STIs after oral sex. If you’re worried, use a condom or dental dam from the start. - The G spot is not a dot
It’s actually part of the clitoral vaginal complex. Stimulating it hits nerves, the urethra, and deep parts of the clitoris. It’s not a myth, it’s just a misunderstood system. - Men have a G spot too. It’s the prostate
Found about 7 cm inside the anus, the prostate is key to full-body orgasms. Stimulating it also activates parts of the penis you never touch otherwise. - Want to avoid prostate cancer? Come more
Science says men should ejaculate 21 times a month to reduce risk. That’s 3 to 4 times a week. Time to get busy. - We know everything about dicks, not enough about pleasure
There’s a huge gap in research when it comes to vulvas and prostates. Misogyny and homophobia might have something to do with it. - You don’t need to swing just because your partner used to
If they keep bringing up past threesomes or swinging adventures, they might be trying to nudge you into something without actually asking. Call it out. - Porn isn’t all judgment, but a lot of it is
Most porn is made for men and performs a power dynamic. If you don’t like what’s out there, make your own. OnlyFans has changed the game. - Your thighs are not a cockblock
Dark skin, chafing, breakouts, stretch marks… there’s someone out there who finds it all hot. You’re allowed to love your body and expect lovers who love it too. - If sex feels one-sided, speak up
Some people give just to feel good about themselves. Tie them up, slow them down, and introduce actual give and take. - Stuck in a masturbation loop? Try something new
Different movements, toys, slower play, inner exploration. Don’t just go for the climax. Give your body space to surprise you.
