Summary:
Christopher is back and spicier than ever. In this episode, he dishes out stories from his post-divorce sexual renaissance, gives honest insight into life on the dating apps, and opens the floor to listener questions about everything from body confidence and oral sex anxiety to pegging, porn, and post-marriage sex.
He covers a lot: the importance of consent and clear communication, how to navigate STIs without shame, and why judgment is often the thing that kills intimacy. Oh, and there’s also a 23-year-old straight guy named Jack who keeps crying after sex. Christopher is unbothered, curious, and here to normalize it all. As always, it’s equal parts hilarious, healing, and incredibly real.
Key Takeaways:
- Consent and communication aren’t buzzkills. They’re the best sex toys you’ve got. Talking openly about what you want, what you don’t, and what turns you on makes everything better.
- Post-divorce sex can be hot. Christopher is living proof that life (and sex) after marriage can be wild, fun, and full of surprises. Apparently, he’s a “daddy” now.
- STIs happen. Christopher shares his experiences with gonorrhea and chlamydia and encourages everyone to drop the shame and get tested regularly.
- Your genitals are not a design flaw. Everyone’s bits are weird and wonderful. No need to judge them. Celebrate the juicy oyster you’ve got.
- You’re not bad at oral sex. You might just need to communicate more, experiment with angles, and stop trying to be cute while you’re doing it. Pretty isn’t the goal. Pleasure is.
- Pegging isn’t gay. A man liking anal play doesn’t mean he’s gay. It means he has a prostate, and he enjoys pleasure. That’s it.
- Sexual shame runs deep. Whether it shows up as physical discomfort, emotional walls, or post-orgasm tears, shame often holds more power than we realize. Talking about it can be the first step to changing it.
- You’re not too old, too big, or too anything for sex. Whatever story you’ve told yourself about why you’re undesirable is probably what’s keeping people away. There really is an ass for every seat.
- Sometimes you give just for joy. Whether or not you’re horny, you can still enjoy gifting pleasure to someone else. And that might end up being way more fulfilling than you expected.
